how do you want to be remembered?

how do you want to be remembered

Not in a dramatic “what’s your legacy” way. More like: when someone brings you up years from now, what feeling do you hope shows up first?

  • Question of

    Someone tells a story about you at dinner. What do you hope the ending is?

    • “They showed up. Every time.”
    • “They made me feel less alone.”
    • “They changed the whole mood.”
    • “They made us rethink it.”
    • “They had a way of making things better.”
  • Question of

    Pick something to leave on a windowsill.

    • A little lamp left on
    • A weird thrifted figurine
    • A perfectly thriving plant
    • A note that says what it means
    • A polaroid with your people
  • Question of

    Your friend is spiraling in the group chat. You:

    • Send “call me” immediately
    • Drop a wildly specific meme
    • Ask what actually happened
    • Make a tiny plan for tomorrow
    • Pull up with snacks if possible
    • Suggest something slightly chaotic
  • Question of

    A compliment that would get you a little emotional:

    • “I can tell you anything.”
    • “You make life less boring.”
    • “You really care about what you do.”
    • “You told me what I needed to hear.”
    • “I always have fun with you.”
  • Question of

    Choose a kind of late-night walk.

    • Quiet streets with one close friend
    • A long voice note afterward
    • Window-shopping with no destination
    • Getting hot chocolate for everyone
    • Looking for the best view in the city
    • Taking photos of tiny details
  • Question of

    What kind of mess do you secretly respect?

    • A room full of people who feel safe
    • A plan abandoned for a better one
    • Paint-stained hands and half-finished ideas
    • An awkward conversation that clears the air
    • A kitchen after the best party
  • Question of

    The weather has ruined everyone’s plans. Your move?

    • Invite everyone over anyway
    • Turn it into an indoor adventure
    • Finally start that project
    • Have the conversation you’ve been avoiding
    • Make it a themed movie night
    • Check in on the person who was excited
  • Question of

    You find an old photo of yourself. What do you notice first?

    • Who was standing beside me
    • Whether everyone looked comfortable
    • The outfit choice, obviously
    • The tiny detail in the background
    • What I wish I could tell that version of me
    • How fun that day probably was
  • Question of

    Pick a sentence to live by, loosely.

    • “There’s room for one more.”
    • “Why not make it weirder?”
    • “Do it properly, then rest.”
    • “Say it with kindness.”
    • “Make a moment out of it.”
    • “Don’t disappear on your people.”
  • Question of

    At a party, you’re most likely to be found:

    • Making sure the quiet person is included
    • Starting a side quest in the kitchen
    • Admiring the host’s record collection
    • Having a real conversation on the balcony
    • Getting everyone to do something silly
    • Reuniting two friends who needed a catch-up
  • Question of

    Which thing feels most like proof of a good life?

    • People can exhale around you
    • You took the interesting route
    • You made something that lasts
    • You didn’t keep the important stuff buried
    • People associate you with a good time
    • Your people know you’re in their corner
  • Question of

    Last one: what would you want someone to carry with them after knowing you?

    • A sense that they belong
    • A story they’ll never tell normally
    • A new standard for care
    • More courage to be real
    • A smile at the most random times
    • The certainty that they mattered

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