build your ideal guy and i’ll tell you your problem

  • Question of

    your ideal guy is…

    • taller than you
    • shorter
    • same height ?
    • doesnt matter tbh
  • Question of

    do you like older guys?

    • yesssss :))))
    • depends on how old
    • nah i like younger
    • i prefer same age
  • Question of

    pick one of my fictional crush who’s closest to your ideal guy

    • kenji kishimoto
    • percy jackson
    • grayson hawthorne
    • draco malfoy (it was a phase ???)
    • darkling/ general kirigan
    • sirius black
  • Question of

    pick his vibe

    • quiet but observant
    • sarcastic menace energy
    • golden retriever in human form
    • mysterious, unreadable, kinda scary but hot
    • emotionally stable like a miracle
  • Question of

    his communication style?

    • sends playlists
    • long paragraphs at 2am
    • cannot text back to save his life
    • aggressive dry humor
    • calls you “dude” but is in love with you
  • Question of

    pick his hands

    • veiny & artistic
    • soft & warm
    • always cold for no reason
    • ring collection
    • scarred but gentle
  • Question of

    what does he smell like

    • clean laundry and vanilla
    • cigarette smoke and citrus
    • pine and winter air
    • coffee and ink
    • warm skin and something familiar you can’t name
  • Question of

    where does he kiss you first

    • forehead
    • cheek
    • shoulder
    • wrist
    • lips, but only after hesitating
  • Question of

    his biggest flaw

    • emotionally unavailable
    • jealousy issues
    • “i’m fine” when he’s not
    • overthinks everything
    • too kind for this world
  • Question of

    too kind for this world

    • to feel chosen
    • to feel understood
    • to feel safe
    • to feel adored
    • to finally stop running

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    3. I want him to be like, how do I explain? I mean, I dont want princess treatment. I want both of us to be the same in our relationship. I want us to make jokes until our stomach hurts from laughing. I want him to be cute, and doesnt consider me to be weaker just because I am a female. I want to carry him, make handmade goods, ragebait him just to see his cute annoyed face. And Doe eyes are cute. And I want him to think that sex jokes are not funny. And he respects everyone, no matter what gender (Just explaining my crush atm-)

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      1. i get you bro. but like, for me the problem is that i cant love. no matter how hard i try, my mind just doesnt let me. i know a guy whos in love with me and hes a pretty good candidate but i just cant get myself to love him, to love anyone. and hes even pretty and partly my type. i dont know whats wrong with me. im not even aromantic, cause i fell in love once (got rejected tho after 3 years of having a crush on him). i was in 2 relationships but none of them were really true for me. i just were with them because i desperately need someone to talk to, to tell them about myself. i have a lot of friends, but none of them is enough. none of them is here just for me. i just wish so hard for a boyfriend, but i cannot love. i cant even have a crush. im so sick of myself.

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        1. I think maybe you’re burnt out from trying to love someone so much you forgot to love or check on yourself. (Maybe.)

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    5. It’s nice but the image of hands are not available and those who don’t know about those men have nothing to do except searchingabout the hem and. Wasting there time on those

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    6. It’s nice but the image of hands are not available and those who don’t know about those men have nothing to do except searchingabout the hem and. Wasting there time on those . Soo it’s better to improve and you must add some questions

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  18. Well it’s not bad but, I don’t pick people that need to be helped or fixed, I need the help and the fixing. I just really love to help people normally cuz I would never love to see someone hurting. I’m really empathetic. I chose that part of the option cuz the rest of the options weren’t too good to pick and obviously not what I wanted.

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  30. You got: the fixer syndrome
    you keep choosing people who need saving because it makes you feel needed. you want to be the reason someone becomes better. but you always end up giving more than you get. love is not a rescue mission. choose someone who already knows how to hold you.

    I’m the oldest daughter what did you expect me to get

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