Are u hard to love ? (And why)

  • Question of

    What is your favorite color? (without actually naming a color.)

    • The shade of a summer field at its most defiant—when the sun hits each blade of grass just right, and the earth sighs in photosynthesis.
    • The whisper of moonlight on untouched snow, silent and barely-there, like breath against a mirror.
    • That bruised moment just after sunset, when the sky can’t decide if it’s mourning or dreaming.
    • Ink spilled in a hurry—intentional accident, thought turned tactile.
    • The glint on a beetle’s back, unexpected and jeweled, like armor with secrets.
    • A dream that won’t let go when you wake up, clinging like silk and shadow.
    • The flicker of a streetlamp in fog, lonely but loyal, trying to make something out of nothing.
    • A child’s balloon lost in the sky, defiant against the blue, buoyant with laughter.
    • The part of the ocean that doesn’t want to be touched—deep, slow, older than language.
    • What ancient clay might remember—sun-baked, story-soaked, crumbling at the edges.
  • Question of

    Do you struggle with relationships?

    • Yes. And still, I clutch it all like it’s the only thing keeping me from sinking—every word, every moment, every fading version of what we were. Even when it’s already fallen apart, I gather the pieces like they’ll make sense again if I just hold them tightly enough. I convince myself that if I stay still, careful, devoted, maybe the cracks won’t spread. Maybe what’s broken will forget how to break. But deep down, I know—some things slip through no matter how tightly you hold on.
    • Yes. Everything I once held feels like a ghost now—familiar shapes fading into nothing, one by one. With every ending, the world feels less solid, like the ground itself is pulling away beneath me. I try to pretend I’m whole, but the truth is quieter: I just want someone to stay. Not to fix it, not to save me—just someone who won’t disappear when the light changes.
    • I don’t know why, but people seem to like me—more than I expect, more than I sometimes understand. They’re drawn in easily, like something about me pulls them close without effort. It’s not the getting close that’s hard—it’s what comes after. So no, I don’t struggle to connect. I struggle with what comes when the shine fades, when they’ve seen too much or not enough, when the closeness asks for more than curiosity can carry.
    • Yes. I do struggle—because no matter how much I give, how hard I try, how close I come to perfect, it’s never quite enough. I shape myself into everything they might want, soften every edge, show up, stay kind—and still, something in me is too much or not enough. I watch people drift, grow cold, walk away, and all I’m left with is the question: what else could I have done? I don’t know why they don’t like me. I only know I would’ve loved them right.
    • Nobody cares enough to stay long enough for a struggle…
    • I don’t know anymore
  • Question of

    Are u a clingy person ?

    • Yes
    • No
    • Sometimes when I feel like it
  • Question of

    To give or to receive?

    • To give
    • To receive
    • Both equally
  • Question of

    To vent or to bottle it all up ?

    • To vent obviously
    • To keep it for myself until it eats me out alive
  • Question of

    The bare minimum will always be :

    • The bare minimum for sure
    • Something hard to get
    • More than what it seems like
  • Question of

    Soul

    • Mate
    • Eater
    • To soul
    • Catcher
  • Question of

    Who else understands u the way u want and need to be understood?

    • Only I can
    • My mother / sibiling
    • A best friend
    • A lover

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7 Comments

  1. Thank you for telling the truth even if it’s embarrassing and humiliating 🙂
    I’m an arrogant, self-centered person. But changing takes good time (or would I?).

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