what type of bender are you?

  • Question of

    This is kind of a give-away point, but which element do you feel most connected to?

    • Fire
    • Air
    • Water
    • Earth
  • Question of

    Which would you rather have?

    • Freedom
    • Stability
    • Energy
    • Community
  • Question of

    If any of these could be guaranteed, which would you pick?

    • Love
    • Pleasure
    • Willpower
    • Survival
  • Question of

    When faced with a high stress situation, do you thrive when you’re prepared or when you’re improvising?

    • When I’ve prepared ahead of time
    • When I’m in the moment reacting
  • Question of

    When I’m in the moment reacting

    • Though I rarely apologize, when I do, I’m sincere
    • It’ll take me a moment to calm down, but once I do, my apology is usually sincere
    • I apologize quickly to avoid bigger conflict. Sometimes I mean it, sometime I don’t.
    • I am sincere in my apologies—although it will take me a long time to actually apologize
  • Question of

    You witness your friend’s significant other—who you’re also friends with—cheating on them. You know this would be devastating to your friend group. What do you do?

    • I will do what needs to be done, even if it’s difficult. My friend deserves the truth so they can move on
    • I would confront the significant other about what I saw before I proceed with telling my friend what I saw
    • I would tell the significant other to come clean and make sure I was there for my friend in the aftermath
    • I would tell my friend immediately and end my friendship with their significant other without question
  • Question of

    When you’re going through intense emotion (i.e. anger, sadness, etc), how do you work through it?

    • I tend to work from the inside-out. I need to examine my emotions and thoughts, and try to find the root of what I’m feeling before trying to tackle anything outside myself.
    • I tend to work from the outside-in. I need to get the emotion out physically through action/activity so that I can approach what I’m feeling more clearly later on when I’m ready.

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