How Insecure Are You Really?

  • Question of

    You’re invited to a party, but you only know one person there. What’s your first thought?

    • “I’ll just stick by my friend and hope we don’t get separated.”
    • What if no one talks to me? I should probably come up with some small talk topics now.
    • Great! I can meet new people and maybe even make some friends
    • I’m definitely not going. Too much pressure and awkwardness
  • Question of

    You post a selfie online, and it doesn’t get many likes. How do you react?

    • Meh, who cares? I liked how I looked, and that’s all that matters
    • Okay, that’s a little disappointing, but I guess not every post has to blow up
    • Why does no one like me?? I’m deleting it immediately!
    • Maybe I should edit it more next time. Clearly, something was off.
  • Question of

    You overhear two people laughing right after you walk past. What’s your first assumption?

    • They’re probably laughing about something completely unrelated to me
    • It’s probably not about me… but I can’t help wondering.
    • What did I do wrong? Are my clothes weird? Did I trip?
    • They’re definitely talking about me, and I need to fix whatever’s wrong immediately
  • Question of

    How do you handle constructive criticism?

    • I appreciate the feedback. It helps me improve!
    • I take it in, but it sometimes stings a little
    • I overthink every word of it and can’t stop feeling bad about myself
    • I feel completely attacked and defensive, even if they mean well
  • Question of

    You’re meeting someone new. What’s your biggest concern?

    • Will we vibe and have a good conversation?
    • Do I look okay? First impressions are important.
    • What if they don’t like me? What if I say something dumb?
    • Everything! My appearance, my personality, my awkwardness—it’s all a mess!

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