help w a boy

skip this question if u want a tldr, ok so I'm in hs and I like this guy (I've known him for a year so it's not like a temporary crush and also we're sorta friends) but he graduated so we've not been talking much as he's figuring out college rn, we're still on good terms tho. so anyway I was at my church's youth group and there's this kid who just graduated from the K-5 program (he's a 6th grader rn) and the weird thing is he looks exactly like the guy I like and I mean exactly, he's short and Japanese with short brown hair and dark eyes and i know that's pretty common for Japanese ppl but I swear they’re like identical. but the actual crazy thing is THEY HAVE THE SAME NAME and granted its not a crazy uncommon name but it's not like jack or sam common. anyway is this like a sign??? should I text him???? what do i do please help (edit: just to be clear I have been friends with this guy for a year now we're just not as close now. also I'm not tryna get with a 6th grader I'm tryna get w the graduated kid)

It’s definitely a sign! If you’re feeling this strongly about it, maybe you should text him. At least start a conversation, see where it goes!

Honestly, it sounds like you’re just seeing some weird coincidences. It might be best to let it go and just focus on your connection with the guy you like!

Maybe it’s a sign, but I wouldn’t make any big moves yet. You could just send a casual message to reconnect and see how he responds.

It’s probably not a sign, just some random coincidences. I wouldn’t overthink it. If you really want to talk to the guy you like, focus on that!

TLDR there's this kid at my church's youth group that has the same appearance and name as this guy I like but don't talk to a lot anymore (not bc he hates me he's just busy), is it a sign??? do I text him????? help please

I think it’s just a weird coincidence! Maybe texting could be fun, but don’t expect anything too crazy to happen.

Honestly, I don’t think it’s a sign. It’s probably best to just let the guy you like figure out college and not stress about random coincidences.

It’s a little weird, but if you feel like texting him, go for it! Just keep it casual and see where it goes.

Sounds like you’re overthinking it! Don’t stress too much about it, just focus on the person you’re into and let things develop naturally.

So do u think we could still be friends and shit?

Totally, just take it slow and give it time.

Maybe, but things might be a little awkward now.

Nah, it's probably best to let things naturally fade.

It's complicated. You might need to re-evaluate the friendship.

Update: I’m now dating the graduated kid's friend (he knows and is ok with it).

Wow, that's a big move! You’ve gotta be real about it with the graduated kid though.

That sounds like a solid situation! Is the graduated kid supportive?

Uh, that sounds like a lot of mixed emotions. Are you sure you’re cool with it?

Seems like a healthy thing to do if both of you are cool with it!

More context about that last thing: so I met my bf around the same time I met the graduated kid, but him and my bf were already friends. As time passed I got close to both of them but closer to my bf, although I wasn’t romantically interested in him yet. Spring of this year, me, my bf, and the graduated kid all went on a school trip but I spent all my time with my bf and not the graduated kid bc I was scared to annoy him. That was when I first started developing a crush on my bf. After the trip, we texted every other day, and when school started again in the fall, we started talking every day. Then he asked me to Hoco and a week later asked to be my bf so yeah. I actually like him bc of him, not bc I wanna get w the graduated kid through him

Sounds like you’ve got your heart set on your bf! It’s a great story of things evolving naturally.

The connection is definitely real! You're in the right place emotionally.

Wow, that’s a lot of history! I’d say you’re on the right path.

Seems like you’ve got things sorted out. I wouldn’t worry too much about the graduated kid anymore.

TLDR there's this kid at my church's youth group that has the same appearance and name as this guy I like but don't talk to a lot anymore (not bc he hates me he's just busy), is it a sign??? do I text him????? help please

So do u think we could still be friends and shit?

Update: I’m now dating the graduated kid's friend (he knows and is ok with it).

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